

A gray divorce refers to divorces secured by couples later in life, usually those who have been married for many years and are nearing retirement age. These divorces are uniquely complex, especially for property division. Working with a Fort Bend County gray divorce lawyer helps you safeguard your financial interests, consider tax implications, and make informed choices about your divorce.
When you hire a gray divorce lawyer, you want strategic and caring legal advice. At KGK Family Law, we offer comprehensive legal strategies tailored to your unique divorce while supporting you through this difficult time. The outcome of a divorce can affect your future and your family, and our team helps you make informed choices throughout the process.
Our attorneys have 33 years of legal experience in family law cases and 45 years of legal experience combined. Gray divorces can be complex, but our firm has an in-depth understanding of Texas’s divorce laws and how they impact you. We can represent you in cases handled at the Fort Bend County Justice Center in Richmond and help you negotiate an agreement outside of court.
In 2024, nearly 40% of those getting a divorce were 50 years old or older, and these numbers increased significantly from prior decades. In Fort Bend County, 5.3% of men and 8.1% of women were divorced in 2024. That year, 13.1% of the county’s population was also 65 and older.
A gray divorce has unique considerations and complexities that are less common in divorces between younger couples or those who haven’t been married very long. This includes:
Couples that have been married for a long time likely have gained a lot of property, income, and other assets as a couple. In Texas, marital property is divided fairly and equitably, but not necessarily equally. The divorce process involves determining asset categories and values. When there are more assets, it takes more time to determine whether assets are separate or marital property, to accurately appraise those assets, and to separate assets and debts fairly.
Couples may need to address retirement accounts, real property, marital homes, brokerage accounts, savings, and other assets in property division. Dividing these assets is costly and can be contentious.
It is also more likely that spouses have greater wealth disparity after many years of marriage, especially when one spouse spent more time caring for children or the home.
Having a divorce later in life also minimizes the opportunities for employability and future career growth. This makes spousal support, called spousal maintenance in Texas, more important. Spousal maintenance is much more likely in these divorces and may be awarded for a much longer period of time or for a higher amount. It’s important to ensure a maintenance award is fair to both parties.
Retirement accounts are often one of the most significant assets in a divorce, and dividing this asset can be difficult. Taking finances from a pension or other retirement account early can have tax consequences, especially if it isn’t handled properly. Tax consequences may also affect other assets. It’s important that asset division is considered carefully so that the division is fair without causing significant tax burdens.
Gray divorces are unlikely to have minor or young children. Usually, these divorces happen after any kids a couple has are adults and may even be starting their own families. While divorcing couples don’t have to worry about child custody or child support, there are considerations for how the divorce will impact adult children and relationships with grandkids.
When you work with an attorney for a gray divorce, they help you:
It is much easier to navigate the specifics of a gray divorce under Texas law with an experienced attorney.
The cost of a gray divorce is high and can be higher compared to other divorces because of the immense amount of assets and debts that have to be addressed.
Untangling the lives of couples who have spent decades together takes more time and is therefore more costly compared to shorter marriages. These divorces also need to consider the costs of financial experts, properly experienced attorneys, and tax implications of splitting certain assets.
The 10-year rule for divorces in Texas has to do with awarding spousal maintenance. The court may award spousal maintenance to a requesting spouse if that spouse lacks sufficient property to provide for their reasonable needs, is unable to earn enough income to meet those reasonable needs, and the marriage lasted for 10 or more years. The court will assess other factors when determining the amount and duration of spousal maintenance.
A wife in a divorce in Texas is entitled to a just and equitable portion of marital property, to request spousal maintenance, and to request custody and child support. Both spouses have these rights in a divorce. The court will assess several factors when determining what is a just and equitable division of marital property, whether spousal maintenance will be awarded, and what is in the best interests of children. Gender is not one of these factors.
A gray divorce generally refers to divorces between those who are 50 or older, and divorces where couples have been married for many years or even decades. Gray divorces had a median duration of 29 years for couples who were married once. There isn’t a set average age for these divorces. These divorces are more complicated because couples tend to have significantly more shared assets to address during property division, as well as retirement concerns.
When you need a diligent attorney to help you navigate the complex issues of a gray divorce, contact KGK Family Law.